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    February 24

    Johari Window

           最近闲得无聊,做了几个朋友的Johari Window之后,自己也忍不住搞了一个。然后刷刷刷~~把链接发给n个人,等着大家回复。呵呵,年纪最小的发了给我可爱的小mm,年纪最大的发给了同样可爱的"大叔"……
     
           刚刚看了下结果(不过还有望再多几个人给我description哦),好高兴,friendly如此的dominant..(突然觉得自己又变得自恋了,其实说实话,并不觉得这个是我personality里面那样重要的一个特点拉)。然后就是惊讶,真的,从小到大,never never never 觉得自己是一个外向的人,怎么就有那么高的percentage给了extroverted呢?想不明白阿。还有还有,用mature来形容我?真不知道以哥哥为代表的你们几个是怎么想的……有人说我的result好分散,呵呵,难道说我“性格分裂”?哦,btw,每个人是只可以选5 or 6词的。
           自己选给自己了6个形容词,还好,其中三个得到了比较高的认同啦,但是好奇怪,为什么都没有人为我选shy呢?我自己可是选了的呢。忍不住问了几个人,reply都是…………看来,还是太不了解自己。
     
           于是,开始仔细的看每个人的选择是什么样子;在不同的人的眼里的我,似乎差别很大。但认真想一下,和那个特定的人在一起的时候,自己好像也的确是he/she选的那个样子。也许,不是不同的人给我不同的答案,而是自己给了不同的人不同的印象。和有些人一起,我可以侃侃而谈;但和有些人一起,我总感到患得患失;和有些人一起,我觉得自己算是已经长大;但和有些人一起,就会发现原来还是那么幼稚;有时候,我可以很high很high;但有时候,又会安静得连自己都觉得闷……算了,可能大家都是如此吧,有着双重甚至多重性格。
     
           p.s.附结果给大家看一下:
      

    Arena

    (known to self and others)

    cheerful, clever, independent, organised, trustworthy

    Blind Spot

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    able, accepting, adaptable, bold, brave, calm, caring, complex, confident, dependable, extroverted, friendly, happy, helpful, idealistic, ingenious, intelligent, introverted, kind, knowledgeable, logical, loving, mature, modest, observant, patient, proud, quiet, relaxed, responsive, self-conscious, sensible, silly, spontaneous, sympathetic, warm, wise, witty

    Façade

    (known only to self)

    shy

    Unknown

    (known to nobody)

    dignified, energetic, giving, nervous, powerful, reflective, religious, searching, self-assertive, sentimental, tense

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